Merge Blueprint
Your unique code was provided by your therapist.
Each code belongs to one couple only.
A MERGE Premarital Resource
MERGE
Marriage Blueprint
A living document for the marriage you are building together. Return to it weekly, monthly, quarterly — let it grow as you grow.
Begin your Blueprint ↓Our Foundation
The heart of your Blueprint. Everything that follows is built on what you write here.
List the 5–7 values you identified together. For each, write what it means for your marriage.
| Value | What it means for our marriage |
|---|
Write in your own voice — this should sound like both of you.
Our Year One Intention
Naming the year gives you a lens for every decision you make together.
Partner 1
Partner 2
Our Six Domains
For each domain write your aspiration and commitment. Quarterly notes are filled in throughout the year.
Click any domain to expand it.
Our Promise to Each Other
This is not a contract. It is a covenant — a declaration of who you are choosing to be for each other.
We commit to this Blueprint as a living expression of the marriage we are building together.
We promise to return to these pages — not just when things are easy, but when they are hard. We promise to be honest, to hold this vision with open hands, and to grow into the partners we have declared we will be.
The Execution System
The rhythms that turn vision into practice.
Set together at the start of each month. Neither partner decides alone.
Quarterly Goals
Set 2–3 goals at the start of each quarter, connected to one of your six domains.
Annual Refresh
Once a year, return to this Blueprint with fresh eyes. Let it grow with you.
F = Full M = Maintenance S = Survival R = Re-entry
Look at the pattern. What does it tell you?
We have completed Year of our marriage. We re-sign as a declaration of who we are becoming.